annual musings | Butterscotch Sundae

It’s the return of the All & Sundry survey, which I did in 2006, 2007, 2008 and 2010, and then I abandoned. But everything old is new again, and so here we are.

I spent a lot of January peeling decades of wallpaper off the bathroom walls.

What did you do in 2015 that you’d never done before?
I shook the hand of a U.S. president, and I went to California.

Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year? 
I don’t think I made any last year, but several of my 2013 resolutions still need attention. In 2016, I resolve to make more homemade pizzas.

It snowed a little in February, and then it snowed a lot. It all melted pretty quickly.

Did anyone close to you give birth? 
Several of my friends had babies this year!

Did anyone close to you die?
My grandma passed away. She had been diagnosed with leukemia about a year earlier, so it wasn’t a complete shock. When she started to decline, though, it was very fast. I’m grateful that we had enough time to get to Michigan to say goodbye to her.

In March we made our first Dollywood trip of 2015, we planted some things that never grew and JJ T. Cat kept watch from the magnolia.

What countries did you visit?
I did not leave the United States yet again this year.

What would you like to have in 2016 that you lacked in 2015?
Willpower in the face of delicious, unhealthy foods and the motivation to work out regularly. Those are both things I’ve lacked for many, many years.

The kids made some impressive splatter art in the driveway with chalk paint.

What dates from 2015 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
I don’t have a good head for dates, so I don’t have an answer to this one.

What was your biggest achievement of the year? 
Conquering my anxiety so I could go hear the president speak at a BlogHer Town Hall meeting.

In May we watched baseball, I went to the Type-A Parent summit, and Rockford and the kids gave me a grill.

What was your biggest failure?
That think about needing willpower and motivation? I’ve been trying to lose a good bit of weight for a good number of years, and this year I only added to the amount I need to lose.

Did you suffer illness or injury?
I developed a weird rash from wearing my Jawbone Up, but other than that I don’t think there were any illnesses or injuries that were out of the ordinary.

Poppy made a rad collage of Marsha T. Cat in June. We also saw a double rainbow, and I stalked a hummingbird with my dad.

What was the best thing you bought?
Tickets to Disneyland. It’s been on the kids’ wish lists for as long as they’ve known there was such a thing as Disneyland, and we started saving money and airline miles a few years ago when Rockford saw that a conference he always attends would be in Anaheim. It was Pete’s first time on an airplane (and the first one Poppy remembered), and it was the first time the kids and I had been to California. It was a wonderful trip.

Where did most of your money go?
The mortgage, probably.

We went to my dad's house in July and held our annual picnic in his backyard, and Pete went to camp in the mountains. — We went to my dad’s house in July and held our annual picnic in his backyard, and Pete went to camp in the mountains.

What did you get really excited about?
Disneyland, the president and “Star Wars.” Not necessarily in that order.

What song will always remind you of 2015?
Probably “Uptown Funk.” Pete loves to dance to it, and my nephew Perry Mason Jr. loves to sing it.

We started the school year in August, and Marsha T. Cat made cozy on the chair.

What do you wish you’d done more of?
Either writing or exercising. I haven’t had much discipline on either front lately.

What do you wish you’d done less of? 
Stressing over things over which I have zero control. (This was the same thing I said way back in 2010.)

We spent a lot of time at the pinball museum in September.

How did you spend Christmas?
We stayed home this year, and it’s a good thing we did. Rockford was struck down by a kidney stone midday, and we spent several hours in the ER to confirm that that’s all it was. We hosted a less-than-Martha dinner that evening for Rockford’s parents, his sister and her fiancé and some friends.

What was your favorite TV program?
I didn’t think this season of “Fargo” could be better than last season, but it was. I think it was the most under-appreciated show on television, and I can’t wait to see what they do next season.

The children's museum was very close to the hospital where my grandma was, so we took the kids there a time or two in October. — The children’s museum was very close to the hospital where my grandma was, so we took the kids there a time or two in October.

What were your favorite books of the year?
“Station Eleven” was my very favorite this year. I wrote about all the books I read this year yesterday in “The One With All The Books.”

What was your favorite music from this year? 
Sufjan Stevens’ “Carrie and Lowell” is so beautiful and sad and uplifting all at the same time. I’ve also been listening to Leon Bridges a lot recently.

We have a lot of birthdays in November, so we rented a cabin near Pigeon Forge TN and had a family birthday party.

What were your favorite films of the year?
I loved “Star Wars: The Force Awakens.” I’ve seen it three times now, and I’ve enjoyed it wildly every time. I also liked “Spy,” “Inside Out” and “Ant-Man.”

What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I turned 37 this year, and I spent my birthday at a Sufjan Stevens concert. I’ve never been to a show like it. It was cathartic, transformative performance art. I know that sounds kind of silly, but it was a really special experience.