Category Archives: Reading

On the pages of a Rolling Stone

Rolling Stone has never been my cup of tea. On a minor note, I don’t like the format. The magazine’s too big to hold comfortably. My main complaint about it, though, is that it’s far too self-congratulatory for my taste. Jann Wenner writes that a “Rolling Stone interview is still the most intimate, penetrating and perceptive conversation going.” I disagree. Whenever I read Rolling Stone, I think about what Lester Bangs said in “Almost Famous” about writers not letting the musicians think they’re friends: “My advice to you. I know you think those guys are your friends. You wanna be a true friend to them? Be honest, and unmerciful.” Rolling Stone reads like their writers have definitely fallen for the friend thing, and they’re far from unmerciful.

So why’d I pick “The Rolling Stone Interviews” up at the library? I wanted to read the Neil Young interview, and I knew Rockford would probably enjoy the whole book.

Regardless of my anti-Rolling Stone bias, “The Rolling Stone Interviews” was an interesting read. Musicians I didn’t think much of before — Jim Morrison, for example — came across as more interesting and less irritating than I’d expected. Others — and here I’m specifically thinking of John Lennon — surprised me with their arrogance and general nastiness. Morrison had quite a bit to say about manipulating the media, and the interview left me with the impression that he was a pretty savvy character. Lennon emphasized his genius repeatedly. Maybe so, but it sure doesn’t make you likeable, fella. I wish I hadn’t read the Lennon interview, because I like the Beatles’ music quite a lot and I’m afraid this is going to taint it.

The Rolling Stone Interviews” might not be the deepest tome ever written, but it’s certainly interesting. If you don’t read anything else in it, be sure to check out Andy Warhol’s “interview” with Truman Capote. As you might expect, it’s terrifically weird.

There is joy in all

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Last night I went to the library to look for some poetry books for Poppy. I came away with one for myself: “Good Poems,” an anthology put together by Garrison Keillor. (His introduction to the collection is wonderful. Don’t skip it.)

This poem, by Anne Sexton, was the first I read. It made me cry. I’d like to put it into illuminated-manuscript form and hang it on my bedroom wall.

Welcome Morning

There is joy
in all:
in the hair I brush each morning,
in the Cannon towel, newly washed,
that I rub my body with each morning,
in the chapel of eggs I cook
each morning,
in the outcry from the kettle
that heats my coffee
each morning,
in the spoon and the chair
that cry “hello there, Anne”
each morning,
in the godhead of the table
that I set my silver, plate, cup upon
each morning.

All this is God,
right here in my pea-green house
each morning
and I mean
though often forget,
to give thanks,
to faint down by the kitchen table
in a prayer of rejoicing
as the holy birds at the kitchen window
peck into their marriage of seeds.

So while I think of it,
let me paint a thank-you on my palm
for this God, this laughter of the morning,
lest it go unspoken.

The Joy that isn’t shared, I’ve heard,
dies young.

I didn’t start this as a “Works for Me Wednesday” post. But the more I think about it, reading poetry does work for me. I haven’t read much of it lately. I’d “forgotten how big,” how restorative it can be. I’m so glad that I ended my evening with “Welcome Morning” rather than finishing the day with “American Idol.” A good poem makes me want to read more and to write. Whether or not I’ll actually pick up the pen is another question, but it feels good to want to do it. A good poem calms me and gives me perspective and makes me feel centered — all things I certainly could use on a daily basis.

I think I’m going to buy a copy of “Good Poems” to keep on my bedside table.

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Idle parenting

Manifesto of the idle parent

  • We reject the idea that parenting requires hard work
  • We pledge to leave our children alone
  • That should mean that they leave us alone, too
  • We reject the rampant consumerism that invades children from the moment they are born
  • We read them poetry and fantastic stories without morals
  • We drink alcohol without guilt
  • We reject the inner Puritan
  • We fill the house with music and laughter
  • We don’t waste money on family days out and holidays
  • We lie in bed for as long as possible
  • We try not to interfere
  • We push them into the garden and shut the door so that we can clean the house
  • We both work as little as possible, particularly when the kids are small
  • Time is more important than money
  • Happy mess is better than miserable tidiness
  • Down with school
  • We fill the house with music and merriment
  • How “idle” is your parenting? There are a few things on the list that don’t apply at our house — I don’t drink, I don’t have a “garden” and I’m not sure what they mean about rejecting the “inner Puritan.” Nevertheless, I love this manifesto. It’s at the end of a Telegraph column titled “Idle Parenting Means Happy Children.” This isn’t the first piece I’ve read lately about the importance of unstructured play, but it is the first I’ve seen that mentions the benefits to the parents. (I love the photos of Mom and Dad reading amidst the chaos.)