Category Archives: Diversions

The stuff that didn’t fit elsewhere.

To the best of my knowledge, I will not be spending time in an RV this July

I’m taking a break from blogging this month and sharing some words from friends, some posts from the past and other assorted bric-a-brac. This was originally published on July 29, 2011, as “Now I know where to find great T-shirts in central Alabama” during that time when I was traveling the Deep South with Jenna on her All Thrifty States tour.

We spent Monday night at the home of Jenna’s friend Cecelia and her husband, Ryan. Before we all crashed, we ordered pizza and watched the “Breaking Bad” pilot. I’ve only been on the road with Jenna for a few days, and it was so nice to return to “normal” life. Jenna has been on the road for 30-plus days; I can’t imagine how welcome these little in-home oases are for her!

I woke up Tuesday to the rain gently falling against the window, with a soft light streaming through the trees. I pulled myself out of bed and got ready to face the day, only to snuggle back into our hosts’ couch to finish my book. I’ll take that every morning, please. After finishing “The Selected Works of Whimsical cat is whimsical.T.S. Spivet” — which was weird but compelling, although I didn’t really find the end all that satisfying — I ate a few pieces of leftover cheese bread from Papa John’s and begged Jenna for some ibuprofen. Despite the day’s delightful beginnings, I’d woken up with a hoopendoodle of a headache.

The ibuprofen started to work its magic, and we headed out to visit the Goodwill store in Montgomery, Alabama. Goodwill is sponsoring Jenna’s trip, so she’s trying to visit as many of the shops as she can along her route. Like the Buckhead Goodwill, the Montgomery store was spacious, clean and well-organized. Many years ago I overheard a kid at a thrift store complaining to his mom that the shop smelled “like broccoli and old ladies.” Maybe Jenna just has a knack for choosing the best stores, but I’m thinking maybe thrift stores in general have cleaned up their act a bit. That is to say: I’ve been impressed at how tidy the stores we’ve visited have been.

The Montgomery Goodwill gets my vote for both Best T-Shirts and Most Wonderful Book Section so far this trip. They had a vast array of N’Sync t-shirts, as well as a host of goofy slogans such as “I (heart) hot moms” and I (cheeseburger) cows.” Their book section was actually its own room, which could have functioned as a small used book store. The lack of organization in there made me a little twitchy — the “Dune” books should all be together, for one, and I spied four copies of Robert James Waller’s “Puerto Vallarta Squeeze” and a variety of Paul Reiser tomes scatter wily-nily across the bookshelves — but they had an impressive selection. I bought a copy of Tom Wolfe’s “A Man in Full,” a circa-1964 cookbook from Brennan’s restaurant and a set of flip-through explorer cards for the kids.

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We started the drive to Mobile, Alabama, after Jenna finished a few interviews with the local media, and we made it about halfway there before HaRVey politely requested an oil change. His little dashboard notification system said, “Pardon me, miss, but I could use a spot of oil. Pip-pip, cheerio!” OK, well maybe it wasn’t that, verbatim, but it was along those lines. So we made a brief pitstop, then carried on our way.

The sky was ominously dark in the distance for the rest of the drive, but we forged ahead anyway, with a song in our hearts and Nutella-graham snacks in our hands. The skies were clear when we arrived at our campsite, and Jenna made us some Butternut Squash Ravioli for dinner. It was delicious, but it made me miss my Poppy something ferocious. The clear skies seemed to be giving way to more rain as I typed this, and there was enough thunder to make me a little nervous. Let’s hope it isn’t a night like the one Jenna experienced in Iowa!

Lessons learned on Day Four

  • Toasted almonds and garlic are a genius addition to butternut squash ravioli.
  • Getting the oil changed in an RV is expensive.
  • How we made traveling with a toddler and an infant slightly more bearable

    I’m taking a break from blogging this month and sharing some words from friends, some posts from the past and other assorted bric-a-brac. This was originally published on July 9, 2008, as “Staying sane on the road.” We don’t make as many stops now as we did then, but we do still take lots of supplies to keep the kids happy. The best addition to our road trip arsenal since 2008? A portable DVD player.

    It takes about 11 hours to drive to my dad’s house. That’s if you don’t have small people who need to stop frequently. We do have such small people, which meant we spent quite a bit more time on the road. In all that time, though, we only had a handful of whiney moments and not a single full-blown meltdown. I can’t take too much credit for that; we’ve been blessed with two extremely good little travelers. I did, however, do a few things to try to make the trip easier on them.

    Slow down
    The first was what made the trip longer: Frequent stops. We tried to stop about every three hours. It extended our time on the road by quite a bit, but I think it helped keep the kids (and me) from getting stir-crazy — thus keeping the meltdowns at bay.

  • Ikea. This was my favorite stop. While Poppy played in the store’s “Smaland” play area, I browsed the cheap Scandinavian goods. It was also the longest stop, which is why it was nixed on the way home.
  • Rest areas. Some of them have really nice green space where the kids can run about.
  • Local parks. This takes some research ahead of time, but it’ll give you an opportunity to experience more of a given town than just what’s within half a mile of its exit.
  • McDonalds. The food is terrible for you, but I think they all have play areas. This isn’t my first choice, but it works in a pinch.

    The things we carried
    I also put together a “travel kit” for Poppy before we left. I packed the small things in a backpack and pulled them out one at a time on the way up. I wasn’t quite as organized about it on the way home, but she was just as happy so I guess that was OK.

  • Big pink lapdesk thing. I wanted something she could use to put her coloring books on. I found a few options online that would’ve worked well, but I didn’t want to spend much on it. The little “desk” that we ended up with was $6 at Michael’s.
  • Small Magnadoodle. She spent lots of time with this, practicing her letters and asking me to draw juice boxes. It has magnets on the back, so I’m going to stick it to the fridge if it ever makes it back into the house.
  • ColorWonder coloring books & markers. The markers will only color on the ColorWonder paper. Normally I wouldn’t go for such a specialized item, but I thought it would be a good idea in the car. Bored preschooler + markers = trouble.
  • iPod stocked with audiobooks/stories. I thought this was a brilliant idea. Then I forgot the iPod charger. Poppy did enjoy listening to it before the battery died. StoryNory is a good source for free stories, and AudibleKids has a few free books as well.
  • Books, books, books. Poppy loves to “read,” so I made sure to stock the car with her favorite books. As long as the book bin was within her reach, she had plenty of reading material to keep her busy.

    I wanted Pete to be happy, too, of course, but he’s easier to entertain than Poppy at this stage. We just brought along some of his stuffed animals and toys that would hang from his car seat. With regular stops for diaper changes, food and stretching, he was a mighty happy little traveler.