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So, I’ve been camping in the basement

A few days before 2016 arrived, the venerable Angie posted a link to something called “Yoga Camp” on her Facebook page. She generally has good ideas, so I clicked to find out what it was all about. It was a 30-day at-home yogathon hosted by a cute Texan named Adriene, and it involved daily yoga and daily mantras, and the Yoga Camp page called it a “bootcamp for your mind, your body and your soul,” which sounded pretty woo-woo to me. But it was allegedly accessible to the out-of-shape and inflexible and most important of all it was free.

Hello Muddah. Hello Fadduh.
Hello Muddah. Hello Fadduh.

So I signed up.

I signed up under the assumption that I would ignore the mantras and that I wouldn’t be able to do the majority of the work and that I’d get discouraged and quit before Day 5. That’s a terrible way to start any project, isn’t it? Sometimes I have a very bad attitude. By the first day of Yoga Camp, though, I’d decided that not only was I going to do this project for my physical health, I was going to try to adjust my attitude as well. I was going to at least try to downward-dog and mantra my way through the entire 30 days.

And now here it is mid-January, and I’ve done yoga every day for the past 17 days. Even more surprising, I’m setting my alarm clock a little earlier and looking forward to getting up and greeting the day with a little yoga.

Every morning I go down to the basement, I clean up the Disney Infinity figures that Pete has inevitably left on the floor, and I move the coffee table. I crank up the TV and the Xbox and turn the dial to the Yoga with Adriene channel, and then — here’s the kicker — I do my best. I’ve fallen over a few times, and I’ve been unable to follow along once or twice. But I’m trying.

The multicolored Pottery Barn rug I picked up a few years ago for $20 at a yard sale does a serviceable job as a yoga mat, Marsha T. Cat likes to sit and groom herself in the most obtrusive place she can find, and I still can’t fold myself into a child’s pose. But every now and then I’m able to move in a way I was sure I wouldn’t be able to move, and every now and then that daily mantra business — I embrace, I create, I enjoy, I am bold, I am present, I am alive — actually clicks.

So here it is mid-January, and I’m more than half way through Yoga Camp. My body feels a little better, and my mind and my soul — woo-woo though it may be — are both feeling better as well. I don’t feel any more flexible, but I feel a lot more peaceful. I very much wish Yoga Camp could go on forever, and I’m really happy that I took a chance on it.

A tradition of gratitude

We’ve been sharing our Favorite Parts of the Day over dinner since Poppy suggested back in 2011. Pete’s highlights nearly always include the snacks he enjoyed over the course of the day, Poppy always appreciates time spent with friends, and both kids love it when they wake up in time to have breakfast with Rockford. My favorite parts of our days tend to be snuggles, watching the kids succeed in their various activities and — when I have the opportunity — recharging with some alone time. Rockford is generally, like his son, grateful for his food and time spent with me and the kids.

I love hearing what the kids find memorable and enjoyable. It’s always fun when one of their friends joins us for dinner, too, and Poppy and Pete include them in our family tradition. It usually throws them off a little a first, but then they too start to enthusiastically rehash the best parts of their days.

Just like in 2011, when we first started talking about our Favorite Parts of the Day, I tend to focus on the negative. Sharing our Favorites has become one of my favorite parts of our days, and I think it’s helped me accentuate the positive a bit, at least for a few minutes while we sit down to dinner.

NaBloPoMo November 2015