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Today was a good day

Rockford announced yesterday that he had scheduled an appointment for me for a prenatal massage. I’d never had a massage of any sort before, and I was a little nervous. But after a lovely, slow morning, I gathered up my courage and headed out for my first massage.

An hour later, I was so relaxed I couldn’t figure out how to get out of the department store where the salon/spa is located. (I really wasn’t that out of it; the store has a very confusing layout). Once I finally found my way out, I stopped in to Yankee Candle for something to freshen the house.

I checked my phone when I got to the car and discovered that Rockford had tried to call five times over about 15 minutes. Still a little massage-bleary, it didn’t occur to me to panic.

I called, and he said, “Can you get home as quickly as possible? I really need some help.”

Once the fog lifted, I did start to panic a little. So I called back, and he reassured me that there was no need to panic, he was just overwhelmed. And no, I didn’t need to bring him anything for lunch.

Why do you suppose my always-hungry husband didn’t want any lunch?

Because he and his sister had planned a surprise baby shower for me, and the guests were waiting. And they were getting hungry and a little restless.

We moved to this area too recently to have really made any connections, so the guest list was on the small side. But our friends and family far and wide were kind enough to participate in a “virtual” party, and they showered Pete (and us) with generosity. I feel so blessed that there are so many people out there who care about us.

Counting my blessings

Oct. 1

  • Poppy wasn’t ready to wake up this morning when I went in to get her. She fell back asleep in my arms, and I had the rare opportunity to watch her sleep. It was so peaceful and lovely.
  • A good first day on the job for Rockford.
  • Getting 3 magazines in the mail in one day! (Smithsonian, Real Simple and Cooking Light)
  • The Broccoli Mystery

    Oct. 2

  • Poppy calling me her “only one Mommy.”
  • P being a peach at my doctors appointment.
  • Fish stick po’ boys.

    Oct. 6

  • A nice, long bath.
  • Delicious sloppy Joes.
  • Treats from a local bakery. Yum!
  • Strolling down the street after picking up the treats.

    Oct. 7

  • Going to church, and Poppy being excited to go beforehand.
  • The guy on the motorcycle in front of us standing up and wiggling his bottom.
  • Holding hands with Poppy.

    Oct. 8

  • Bowling with Poppy.
  • Clean-shaven Rockford.
  • A very convoluted “CSI: Miami.”
  • While flipping through my “blessings book,” I asked Rockford, “Do you remember March 13?” His response: “That was probably the day you took the pregnancy test. I remember, because I also got the ‘Rockford’ DVD set that day.”

    Oct. 9

  • Poppy reciting part of “The Poky Little Puppy” — “in spite of that …”
  • Poppy reciting the dog party sequence of “Go, Dog. Go!” while running at top speed around the coffee table.
  • The way she asks to be held: “You want Mommy to hold you?”
  • The heated seats in Rockford’s car.

    Oct. 10

  • Poppy having a very, very sweet day. Among the highlights, she pretended to call her cousin, baby Claire. They chatted about diapers. And as we drove past a local barbecue restaurant and she caught sight of their sign, she said: “I see a piggy! A darlin’ little piggy!”

  • Wow, I ate a lot of pie.

    June 14

  • Marsha dashing through the kitchen with a soft-sided laundry basket perched turtle-style on her back.
  • Poppy’s smiles, hugs and kisses. It’s such a blessing to know her!
  • Getting the July issue of “Real Simple” in the mail.
  • Going on a family walk before Poppy’s bedtime.
  • Accomplishing everything on my “three things” list.
  • Having a tea party with Pi, Pooh and Bear.
  • Poppy hugging the vacuum and saying, “I love vacuum.” (This is not the case when the vacuum in actually in use. Then, she runs around the room yelling, “No no no!”)
  • Rockford cleaning the kitchen after dinner.

    June 15

  • Poppy being so goofy-happy at dinner.
  • Pi laying her shampoos bottles down on the side of the bathtub and telling them “Night night.”

    June 16

  • the farmers market.
  • My mother-in-law’s apple-raisin pie.

    June 17

  • strawberry-rhubarb pie.

    June 18

  • lemon meringue pie.

    June 20

  • Sophie referring to the Wilco concert as “a musical.”
  • Wilson referring to the Wilco concert as “Rock ‘n’ roll!” (while playing the air guitar, naturally.)
  • The Wilco show!

    June 21

  • Family hugs.
  • Playing soccer with Poppy.