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Persona

The New York Times, in their Over 1,000 Writing Prompts for Students, suggested I ponder whether or not I am the same person on Facebook as I am in real life. Or rather, they suggested a student ponder the question. But here I ponder, nevertheless.

Yes, I think I am the same person on Facebook as I am in real life. I try to be, anyway. I tend not to post a lot on there when I’m depressed. But my reaction to depression in real life tends to be holing up like a hermit crab and not talking to anyone, so I suppose my Facebook reaction is still pretty authentic.

I might be wittier on Facebook, because I have more time to think about what I’m going to say there. And I’m more outgoing on Facebook, I think. I don’t insert myself into conversations very often in real life.

So maybe I’m not the same person on Facebook and in real life at all. But which one’s more me? Ugh, now I’m having an existential crisis. Thanks, New York Times.

And now we are 41

It’s 8pm on my birthday, and I am ready to go to bed. This is because of (a) the time change and (b) all of the empanadas I ate for dinner. Here’s what we’re having for the rest of Birthday Week:

Monday: Empanadas!

Rockford and I went out to a pop-up empanada shop at a local bar while the kids were at play practice. We tried one of everything — pulled pork! smoked chicken! butternut squash! elote! apple pie! — and every single one was excellent. I’d eat them every day if I could.

Tuesday: Dim sum
This was originally going to be my birthday dinner, but then the empanadas happened.

Wednesday: Breakfast for dinner
Rockford pancakes for everyone!

Thursday: Poppyseed chicken casserole
Pete’s turning 12, so I’m making his favorite meal.
Friday: Pizza
May be frozen, may be Pizza Hut. We’ll see.